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Deprecated: filter_input(): Passing null to parameter #4 ($options) of type array|int is deprecated in /home/anaferreira/public_html/wp-content/plugins/google-site-kit/includes/Core/Util/Input.php on line 64 6. As crianças precisam de disciplina – Blog da Ana
Uma das principais funções do pai é estabelecer limites de comportamento. A disciplina eficaz exige sabedoria, paciência e persistência.
Sentimentos de cordialidade, afeição e amor devem ser temperados com conhecimento, compreensão e autocontrolo por parte dos pais. A criança que não sabe quais são os seus limites de comportamento sente-se igualmente insegura e não amada. A juventude necessita de limites. Como pais, precisamos de possuir certas qualidades básicas:
Capacidade de aceitar a criança afetuosamente.
Comportamento consistente como pais, isto é, a maneira como os pais se relacionam com o filho é constante, dia a dia.
Definições de limites claros de comportamento. Os limites podem variar de família para família. É importante que sejam bem compreendidos pela criança e consistentemente reforçados pelos pais.
O que é disciplina? A disciplina é, no geral, definida como castigo que produz obediência. Esse conceito é, porém, muito limitado. A palavra “disciplina” deriva de “discípulo”. Tanto “disciplina” como “discípulo” têm origem no termo latino “pupilo”, que significa instruir, educar e treinar. A disciplina envolve a modelagem total do carácter da criança, encorajando o bom comportamento e corrigindo aquele que é inaceitável. O castigo é a parte da disciplina que fornece uma restrição curta e temporária.
O castigo do mau comportamento não produz automaticamente o bom comportamento. A disciplina inclui também a responsabilidade dos pais em obter, encorajar e construir o bom comportamento em substituição ao mau.
Propósito da disciplina: Os pais devem perguntar-se a si mesmos: qual é o objetivo final que desejo alcançar na educação dos meus filhos?
Método de disciplina: a reação da criança à disciplina dos pais tem muito mais significado do que o método usado. Deixo alguns princípios orientadores que você pode achar úteis:
Uma atitude positiva no geral obtém o comportamento desejável mais depressa do que a negativa.
Faça mais elogios do que censuras.
Antecipe as áreas de problema e procure eliminá-las antes que surja o conflito.
Encoraje o seu filho em lugar de reclamar dele.
Procure ser imparcial.
Ouça as explicações antes de tirar conclusões.
Seja consistente, mas não inflexível.
Evite o ridículo, o sarcasmo e a ironia. Podemos disciplinar, sem levar a criança a sentir-se ridicularizada.
Explique as suas decisões sempre que possível, mas exija obediência instantânea quando necessário.
Estabeleça limites definidos e claros de comportamento, evitando regras detalhadas ou arbitrárias que confundem as crianças, isto é, seja claro nas regras.
Não tome decisões absolutas precipitadamente, especialmente quando estiver tenso ou cansado. Diga “talvez” em vez de “não”, ou “vou pensar”.
Considere as diferenças individuais dos seus filhos e faça os seus julgamentos de acordo com elas.
Se medidas negativas forem necessárias, administre-as com sabedoria.
Faça diferença entre educação e castigo. Há atitudes descuidadas e desajeitadas que só podem ser melhoradas por meio de lembretes consistentes durante um longo período de tempo, enquanto a má conduta deliberada deve ser punida imediatamente (castigo).
Castigue na base do motivo e não dos resultados. A mentira deve ser castigada mais severamente do que um copo que a criança deixou cair ao chão.
O castigo deve ser de acordo com a ofensa. A humilhação em público ou castigo em grupo poucas vezes dá resultado.
Evite medidas disciplinares à mesa.
O castigo severo só deve ser aplicado quando você estiver calmo e controlado. As decisões impulsivas são geralmente lamentadas.
Não ameace a criança. Aplique-lhe a punição ou abra mão dela.
Mantenha um mínimo de regras, mas exija o cumprimento das que forem estabelecidas.
Não castigue a criança obrigando-a a fazer atividades de que deveria gostar. Por exemplo, alguns pais forçam os filhos a ler a Bíblia como castigo.
Não esqueça ainda que a criança é toda ouvidos e olhos abertos. Ela é uma superfície de absorção. A criança pequena reage aos que a rodeiam e imita essas pessoas. Ela procura ser como aqueles que ela ama e admira. Aquilo que os pais são, mais do que aquilo que eles dizem, estabelece o modelo para a criança. O que os pais fazem na própria vida é muito mais importante do que aquilo que dizem ou as limitações que estabelecem, pois os filhos imitam os pais nos seus defeitos e qualidades.
Sobretudo, deve haver uma disciplina adequada. Recorde ainda que crianças bem ajustadas não necessariamente vêm de lares onde os pais cometem poucos erros. É mais provável que venham de famílias onde os pais cometem muitos erros, mas são honestos o suficiente para admiti-los e podem pedir perdão com sinceridade. Admitir uma falha é o primeiro passo para se aperfeiçoar e para ganhar respeito. Um pai que é bom o suficiente para se desculpar vai ter uma criança que também aprende a pedir desculpas.
As crianças não obedecem e honram os pais porque a Bíblia diz que devem fazê-lo nem porque eles fazem tudo certo. Em vez disso, elas reagem ao amor, à compreensão e aos relacionamentos significativos com os pais no trabalho, nas brincadeiras e na vida diária em conjunto.
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